So when you look into the mirror, do you see a Richard Gere staring back at you? Well, you ought to (at least think it is, ok?). Now that you feel good about your looks…you are ready to attract the perfect mate to you. Or, are you? There are some subtleties that hold the key to finding that dream girl and the ‘And then they lived happily ever after’ part of a story.
Ever heard of happy people being the most attractive and appealing? If no, then you know now. So, ask yourself if you are happy. By happiness, we do not mean laughing and being merry, a lot of people do that without inner happiness. Find out what would really make you happy, and do it! A person with an unhappy face is the object of sympathy not desire.
Another de facto is the taboo on dwelling in the past. Just let go. You need the freedom to be free. Many times it is easier to cling to the past than to face the present. But this is a definite no-no. Learn to enjoy your present and look forward to your future.
Certainly, a debatable issue, money or the lack of it can be serious. But a comfortable financial position does indicate how ambitious, independent and stable you are. Besides if you are on a secure footing and that at least does not add to your worries. And you are definitely on even if all you have is just a plan. (But be sure to implement it!)
HUMOR – DO YOU HAVE IT IN YOU?
Yes. It is the “Yeh Dil Maange More” syndrome that is doing the rounds and in this stressed out scenario there is nothing like humour that gets people going. There are many facets to wooing and humour is placed somewhere right at the top. Surprising? Well, don’t be. Instead see how you can be a humorous guy. A guy with whom girls would like to talk to and interact with. Ever see girls fall for a guy simply because he can make them laugh and feel as though they just "click"?
A good sense of humor can do that.
Be that as it may, why is humor so important? The answer is very simple. A good joke can lift your spirits when you are down. Laughing can make you feel good when you are feeling bad. Everybody likes to spend time with people who can make him or her laugh, feel good and forget their worries. But it doesn’t mean you dig out that horrendous outfit from the attic and go about trying to be the new cyber age avatar of Jerry Lewis. Or, worse still, recite some dirty jokes grinning from ear to ear. (Incidentally, that’s a tip on how to drive away girls from you!)
Sense of humour is defined by your attitude. For instance, if you spilled coffee over yourself you need not cringe just laugh it off or think of something funny to say or just laugh at yourself. Believe me this does work wonders. When you come across as being a person with a sense of humour, people will feel comfortable in your presence and find it easier to approach you and converse with you. It helps build much needed rapport and a certain level of trust, even connection between two people.
Remember that just because you are funny or have a good sense of humour does not mean that a girl will like you instantly but it does go a very long way in winning her over!
STOP WHINING, DO SOMETHING INSTEAD
Lonely? Bored? Broke? If you answer yes to even one of those questions, there’s one thing you need to do first: STOP WHINING about it. Do something about it instead. And there’s plenty you can do. Look at life through a fresh set of glasses. Experiment. It’s only then that you will see a more interesting person in the mirror. And remember that to meet interesting girls, you have to be a bit interesting yourself. So get out of the rut and push your life onto a new path.
LAUGHTER -- THE BEST MEDICINE
If a woman laughs at your jokes, is amused by your style of humour be sure that you have found a friend for life. Women have a good sense of humour and love anyone who makes them laugh. In fact they enjoy sharing a joke and no matter what demeanour they may be putting up, be sure that beneath that hard-as-rock surface beats a tender heart and a caring person who enjoys good jokes and people who can share these with her
TO BE HUNTED AND LOVED BY WOMEN
Are you a gold digger? Are you a body hermit? Do clothes and accessories turn you on?
If the answer to any or all is yes, please change. Flat abs or Porsche never lasted long enough neither did the dough stowed away or flaunted. What really matters is the person beneath the persona. If you can spread a little bit of sunshine be doubly sure, women are going to hunt you out and love to be with you. There are far too many cardboard cutouts doing the rounds in society circles we need solid people who are a rarity, prove yourself, and be different!