3. If I persistently demonstrate to the woman, whom I am courting, how high my interest level in her is, it will raise her interest level in me. This one is the real killer. Once again media brainwashing is the major factor in perpetuating this myth. Does this plot sound familiar? Handsome man likes beautiful woman, but woman is not interested in him. Man is determined to do whatever it takes to him to win her over. After the man begs, jumps through a dozen hoops and sacrifices himself for her, the woman finally realizes: “oh my gosh! I am really in love with him.” The truth is that most men chicken out when the object of their affections catually need help and support. Standing by her when she needs a helping hand, a kind ear and a shoulder to cry on is the true test of love rather than expressing you undying love by showering her with flowers and expensive gifts and calling her up only when you feel lonely. The truth is that a woman is less interested in how you appear to her than in the way you make her feel about herself. A woman would be attracted to you if you make her feel special and to make her feel good you need to understand her first. 4. I like this woman. If I pursue her aggressively she’ll think I’m serious about her. Chances are that if you call her more than once in two days, she’ll think you’re ‘too’ available! In real life, a woman wants to do the pursuing. If you keep pursuing a woman after she has said “no” five times, you get sued for sexual harassment or arrested for stalking! Jokes apart, remember guys, it is always better to be a challenge. |