Here are a few tips to help men understand the way women think and react during a courtship:
• Don’t go around saying “you know, I really, really like you” when you barely know her or on your first date. It sounds immature. Relax; you’re still getting to know her.
• If you’ve just started dating, the information you choose to reveal should be relevant and appropriate to the dating stage. Revealing personal information within the first two dates will definitely overwhelm her and shoo her away. It is too early to consider your date as a serious marriage candidate. This signals to your date that you are just like the other men who fall for her too fast and are blinded by infatuation.
• Though admiration is fine, don’t just merely swoon over her looks. Men should be interested in lasting aspects like optimism, kindness, compatibility, responsible nature etc. rather than fleeting qualities like provocative attire or external façade.
• Attractive women – whether they are naturally attractive or dressed attractively derive lots of attention from men. They are confident and this trait either fascinates or scares men! Which category do you fall into?
Hence, relax. Slow and steady wins the race.