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rejection

BEYOND THE FIRST DATE


Why is it that the guys I go out with donít want to date me again?

To start with, donít think that thereís something wrong with you just because a guy doesnít go out with you again. It could just be that heís looking for something else. Unfortunately, most guys go by physical features (and nothing else) alone. And many of them have only one thing on their mind: sex. So maybe heís not concerned about getting to know you better, heís just interested in something physical. So itís good for you if he doesnít call you again.

Still, not all guys could be this way. To avoid making the mistake of turning off a ďniceĒ guy, follow certain ground rules: donít hog the conversation. Give him a chance to talk, too. Donít also try too hard to impress him. Thatís the guyís job, not yours. Just sit back and relax.
 

IS HE AVOIDING YOU?


He wonít tell you outright that heís not really attracted to you. Here are a few dislike signals:

ē  He keeps avoiding you
ē His friends/folks/answering machine take your calls
ē  He does not return phone calls

Remember that its natural for guys and gals to fall in and out of love. So donít blame yourself, or doubt your own abilities because you got ditched. Keep your spirits up and you are sure to find someone even better.
 

WHY HE ISNíT KEEN ON YOU


He may have a number of reasons, but chances are the main one will be that he doesnít find you pretty enough. Like it or not, most of us go by appearances, and the first appearance makes all the difference. So make it a point to look presentable all the time. That doesnít mean that you need to doll yourself up each day. Just be neat and tidy and pay attention to how you look.

But if itís not your looks, then it could be that he feels that youíre just not smart enough. Of course, it is quite impossible for anybody to draw a conclusion of a personís intelligence level in just a few minutes. So if heís jumped to that conclusion at the first meeting itself, too bad for him. He hasnít really given himself time to know you better. Consider it his loss.

Then, thereís a chance that heís already committed to somebody else. Now thatís a valid reason, and you can do little about it. Donít try to woo him away. Chances are youíll fall flat on your face.

Another reason for his disinterest in you could be that heís just not interested in starting something. Yes, there are many guys out there whoíre probably recovering from a bad relationship. So let them be. Donít force yourself. Hopefully youíll meet him again when heís ready.

Finally, one last --- but not least --- reason for him not liking you: he may be gay.
 


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